Whats it like to be in LOVE?

Hey you guys! I know I've been saying that I was going to blog a few weeks ago on Character however that didn't happen lol my bad. But trust me I will surely be getting to it one day. But today I will be blogging about something I read up on today while spending time with God. Tonights subject I'm going into depths about LOVE! OHHHHHH LALA. LOL. So before I begin I ask that you say a prayer and ask God to speak to you on the level where you understand what I will blog on tonight. There are so many broken and bitter people all around the world because of the lack of love received and being hurt by what they thought was love. As a human being it's almost natural for us to desire love. In fact it is natural. No matter how much people may make themselves believe that they "Hate love" or don't believe in love in love THEY REALLY DO! OK so what is love? GOD IS LOVE. HOWEVER we are going to go deeper into what God is love means..*get your notebooks out* Love is patient. Love is Kind. It does not want what belongs to others. It does not brag. It is not proud. It is not rude. It does not look out for it's own interest. It does not become easily angered. It does not keep track of other people's wrongs. Love is not happy with evil. But it is full of joy when the truth is spoken. It always protects. It always trusts. It always hopes. It never gives up. LOVE NEVER FAILS." -1 Corinthians 13:4-8 When we questioned what love is and what it means we often have the Disney fairy tale ideal and then we get into relationships without seeking one from God first and then pray that he'll fix and work out what was never meant to be in the first place. We don't notice what we do wrong once we get "hurt" we are quick to play victim and then become bitter about a situation we put ourselves in trying to mock this fairy tale. We then make these relationships we forced & our bf/gf becomes our idol without knowing. * Leviticus 26:1 KJV Ye shall make you no idols nor graven image, neither rear you up a standing image, neither shall ye set up any image of stone in your land, to bow down unto it: for I am the Lord your God.* I mean when we go to sleep with think about them, When we wake up we think about them, & when we pray we pray about THEM. NOT GOOD. That in which was never meant to be has now caused a disconnection between you and God. & then you wonder why things just won't get right or why you can never find the RIGHT ONE. OR for those of you who are married why you haven't had peace in your marriage every since after the honey moon. OK so from a Biblical stand point let's break love down. Scripture says that love is patient and love is kind. Did God tell you that is who you're suppose to be with? If you're sleeping with them and having any performing fornication with them.before marriage I'm positive they ain't the one. "Ok Zakiera how do you know? You're not God" that's probably what the devil is whispering in your ear at this point or he's saying "ONLY God can Judge you" listen I'm not trying to judge or condemn anyone I don't have to the Bible already has, and second I'm so positive on that matter because there is no way you can clearly hear Gods STILL voice when you have all the NOISE of sex with your partner and SOUL TIES (Read my post Let's Talk About Sex Baby part 1 if you don't know what soul ties are). Understand God wants your heart and he can't have that FULLY if you're practicing sin. You want Gods best for You not some Random who You have created a life with in your head based off their potential. Uh uh Stop THAT! THEY have shown you TODAY who they really are, and you don't have time to stick around and try and change them. Only God can change a person. NOT YOU! Scripture also says that It does not want what belongs to others. Listen if you are preying and plotting on taking someone else's man/girl and then you get them and think that you're just so in love sorry to break it to you boo boo YOU'RE NOT! Love does not take what belongs to others! And for those of you who are sleeping or messing around with married people and thinking you're in love let me tell you that you're bringing upon a curse over your life. Not only are you committing adultery but you are messing with a COVENANT UNDER GOD! That's not the kind of shame or curse you want to bring on you, your family, or children. YOU CAN'T DO THAT! Surrender to Christ and get out of that situation. Take that burden to the lord and ask for deliverance and forgiveness before it's to late! Love is not proud. It is not Rude. It does not look out for it's own Interest. Don't be deceived ladies and gents. All the popping off at the mouth, saying mean and hateful things just to get a reaction out of your mate IS NOT LOVE! So stop saying to yourself that you do those things because you love them NO! When you upset God and do things he doesn't like he don't go cursing you out and saying hateful things to you so you don't do that to those you say you love. That includes family members, friends, bf/gf. You have to be careful the words you speak especially those you speak into a persons life. THERE IS POWER IN THE TONGUE! BE WISE! LOVE does not easily become angry. It does not keep track of other people's wrongs. Straight up, Love FORGIVES! If you're with someone and you're always getting angry to the point you have evil thoughts and every time they do something you don't like and you keep track and terrorize them or use it against them every time in a argument THAT AIN'T LOVE! & you need to let that situation go & find your value in Christ! That ain't healthy and can lead to a very bad and dangerous ending. Don't let the excuse that you're IN LOVE keep you there because as you can see SCRIPTURE says that AIN'T! Love always protects. It always Trusts. It always hopes. It never gives up. The only way a person can be sure that the love that they have HAS THIS is if it has a Christ foundation. *"The HEAD of every man is CHRIST. The HEAD of the Women is the MAN. And the HEAD of Christ is GOD. - 1 Corinthians 11:3"* This is what I mean by a Christ foundation. Who are you serving? The MAN should be submissive to CHRIST that's who he is getting his direction from, in this sense the woman who HEAD is the MAN can follow and TRUST that her MAN is leading them who is ONE under the covenant of marriage to live a Christ like life. & Christ being the man HEAD means that Christ is getting his orders from the father OUR CREATOR! You'll never go wrong being obedient and living life this way. So if homeboy isn't submitted to Christ he is not the one! YOU CAN'T TRUST HIM PERIOD! & ladies in the season of singleness you are suppose to be fully submitted to CHRIST not some RANDOM trying to figure out whether or not if he's THE ONE. As the body of Christ we should be so busy with the works of God that when he does send us a mate we are POSITIVE thats who God wants us to be with. Not playing mind games with ourselves, wondering rather or not if this is who God wants us to be with. LOVE NEVER FAILS! God loves is the BEST LOVE because he is love! HE NEVER FAILS US! & to say that you hate love or you don't believe in it is like saying you hate God and you don't believe in him. Your purpose in life is far bigger then your martial status. STAND STILL AND LET GOD BE GOD. GOD LOVE LOVE LOVES YOU! (and so do I) -ZW