As I said in my previous post God wants your WHOLE heart, and not just a piece of it. There is no way possible that he can do such if you're engaging in sexual activities. What happens is sex clouds your judgment, please OVERstand that you don't just have sex with a body, you have sex with a SOUL. Listen, I dont know about you all, but my SOUL is something only God and myself has control over. In no fashion do I want my soul to be placed in the presence of someone UNGODLY. Which if you are having sex before marriage, just because he/she goes to church doesn't qualify them as righteous. There MUST be a close and personal relationship with Christ, and that relationship grows by doing things according to his will. Now back to what I was saying, your soul creates SOUL-TIES when you have sex with a person. This meaning that everything that is apart of them becomes apart of you.
Now watch this for those of you who I may have lost....
SOUL TIES:
EVERYTHING that is apart of them becomes apart of you! Meaning that their spirits, demons, baggage, depression, trash, etc is now apart of you (as if you dont have your own crap to worry about). But wait not to mention if you aren't the only sex partner they have had now their other sex partner crap is apart of you too.
This is the point I am trying to make. Sex DAMAGES people. I mean its your soul you're gambling with. We've always been taught that sex is a "BAD" thing to do outside of marriage but never really why. The most common reasoning that I can remember why not to have sex is because you can get pregnant. Now in our days its you can either get pregnant and/or catch a STD and which some STD's do not have a cure. But it is so much deeper then that. Sex before marriage blocks your growth and development as a person and most importantly your relationship with Christ. This is also why it is important that PARENTS, AND CHURCHES talk about sex and get into depth why not to have it before marriage. You can't say just dont do it, and not explain why. TALK ABOUT IT!
SAVING YOUR SELF:
Ladies: It is impossible for you to have sex with a guy and not become emotionally attached. Hopping from guy to guy searching for love with the exchange of sex is not helping you its hurting you! To these guys you're more then likely another piece of "meat" he's going to put on his list & brag to his boys about. Your value is way more expensive then that. If you really want someone to love you unconditional go to Christ. His love will shut out every fake, illusion, and fairy love affair you've ever encountered. His love is so REAL you will NEVER EVER go back to just "settling". If a guy really loves you he himself will "wait" for you because a TRUE MAN of God will be saving himself for you too. Don't let your friends gas you up just because they're doing it either. Nine times out of ten, after the many intercourse's homegirl & homeboy had I bet they aren't together & he's more than likely cheating on her. So all that talk about "If you dont do it someone else will" OH WELL LET THEM DO IT, or "Closed legs don't get feed" well hunger & security has NEVER been an issue for me my daddy (Jesus) ALWAYS makes sure I'm straight closed legs & all. :) You don't want to give any guy the luxury that a HUSBAND deserves. That is someone who has paid the price for you, & vowed to commit himself to GOD 1ST and then You. No boo, bae, or as our big sister in Christ Heather Lindsey says some "Random" doesn't deserve that kind of treatment. Become whole in Christ first, he'll then send you someone who he feels is the best fit for you & that will also compliment him as a unit to do his work.
Males: Stop playing games & step up and be a LEADER! Just because girls are throwing it at you doesn't mean you go and take it. That will eliminate the private phone calls, random pop ups, and other crazy drama including females that you don't need in your life. That in itself is a DISTRACTION to keep you from focusing on God and what he has planned for you. There is nothing more attractive then a GOD FEARING MAN! A MAN who is living his life for Christ, and being the HEAD he was intended to be. Any man outside of God Fearing is either a chump, coward, and manipulator. This means he has the title of a "Thug", "Player", "Dog" and so on. Neither of those roles should any male take pride in playing. Though society has made it acceptable ITS REALLY NOT! Society has made "sissys" out of who is suppose to be a protector and provider due to him falling under lustful spirits. Dont let the spirit of lust "PLAY YOU" while you're playing others. Take control and get into place with God!
I can go on and on about this topic so watch out for part 2. But in the mean time remember this "Bad judgment and Sex is a DANGEROUS combination." A moment of some sex is not worth the LIFETIME consequences that follows it.
God LOVE, LOVE, LOVES YOU,
(and so do I)
-Your Sister in Christ (ZW)
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